How to get a girlfriend in 10 simple steps

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    RULE 4: Get yourself actively involved with changing the outcome of your life.

    Just another day at the park. #8 Be a good listener.

    T his rule is here because, and this is coming from my real experiences as a nice guy, we tend to judge couples all too often when we feel like we can not get a girlfriend. Taking responsibility in part means to stop placing blame on others. It’s not her fault, his fault, or anyone else’s fault but your own; if you have yet managed to date a hot girl or find one to be your girlfriend. Talk to her about shared interests while on your outing. Be respectful to her by opening doors and not trying to move too fast to get to a physical relationship.

    Present her with a concrete plan she can’t refuse. When you know what you want, and don’t want, in a relationship, this puts you into the role of the selector. Instead of pursuing every single beautiful woman, hoping she’ll shower you with her attention, you’re being selective about who you want to be your girlfriend. You’ll start giving off the vibe that you don’t need women to make your life complete.

    I mean, you can have Tinder and meet people that way, but it’s usually more fun when you go out and meet people when you least expect it. Like at a grocery store, swimming pool, or library. Join a sports club or book club, whatever club it is that you’re interested in—join it.

    Getting a girlfriend is NOT getting the next “hot” girlfriend you see. Let’s say you land some hot girl by your side and she’s seems really into you – without blowing it entirely with you (you can keep her around to date) but until you’re ready do NOT settle down with her. Make yourself ready and be prepared to do things and say things you’ve never done before. If you’re not seriously committed, not much of this is going to help you get a girlfriend.

    • While leading the single life is fun for a while, it can become tiring and often leaves singles wanting something more meaningful.
    • The girl who sits next to you at the coffee shop could be your next girlfriend.
    • If you’re with someone who’s just like you, you’ll stay the same forever and thats boring af.
    • This rule is here to make sure you don’t just settle for that first girl.
    • Which means you need to explore the reasons why you’re introverted.
    • Just be a nice guy and get to know who you’re chatting to.

    For many of the men we coach, one of their main hindrances is, ironically enough… their eagerness to find a relationship. They obsess over their need to have a girlfriend, demonstrating clingy and needy behavior. And when they do meet girls they like, they usually scare them away because of this.

    Don’t try to rush into a relationship. A healthy relationship takes time to grow and develop into something real. Don’t pretend to have something in common with a girl to get her attention. This usually backfires because she’ll eventually realize you’re lying. People are more attracted to you when you seem happy with your life, so this can help you find a relationship.

    Widening acceptance for describing people of all agesEdit

    You were just “checking” to see if she’s available. If a guy talks to women and doesn’t focus on making them feel sexually attracted, most women will only see him as a friend or just another forgettable, random guy that they’ve met.

    Instead, let her give you queues about what she’s comfortable with. When the date or get-together is over, let her know you had a good time and that you hope to do something similar again soon. Call or text the girl you are interested in within one to three days. If you contact her right away she might feel stifled. However, if you wait too long she might forget who you are or have found another guy she’s interested in.

    It’s a lonely club if we’re being honest. Yes, most women do not prefer a short guy, but they will happily accept a short guy if he is confident and masculine (in how he thinks, behaves and takes action in life) enough. If you have that type of belief about height and women, then you will always see evidence of it.

    Women really don’t like lazy men, so someone who is ambitious and motivated to achieve things will instantly catch their attention. There is obviously a fine line; women don’t want a workaholic boyfriend. But it’s really good to be passionate about things (not just work) and if you’re motivated to achieve things, women will instantly find you more attractive and interesting.



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